At an LGBT function Obama decided to warn Christians that the 3 percent of gays we have in this country have legal rights that basically trump yours. Here is my take on it.
We have separation of church and state for a reason and both Christians and Gays need to adhere to it.
Christians need to stay out of the state and keep their message in the churches. If they do not want to sign legal documents for gay marriage or what have you then find another job.
Gays need to respect Christian beliefs and churches have a right to tell you if they believe you are committing a sin if you are associated with that church. Furthermore if the church doesn't want to marry you they do not have to. Find someone who will.
On businesses Gay businesses can refuse Christians and Christian businesses can refuse gays if it goes against each others beliefs.
Both sides need to find middle ground and stop forcing their agendas on us and each other.